Relationships
Relationships, like everything else that has been, is, or will be do not last.
I have been thinking about the expression "everyone marches to the beat of a different drum." And well, have you ever had a metronome and had it going and listened to some music. Sometimes if you don't have the metronome set right, like it is a little bit off it will sound for a while like the music and it are going to the same beat. This will also happen if you are in a car and have your turn signal on and a car in from of you has theirs on, and for a little bit the will almost go on and off at the same time as each other and then they will start blinking completely different again. Well, that is human interaction, right there.
what happns is two different drums of two different people encounter and the beats for a little bit beat as if they were the same. How long this lasts depends on how similar the beats are and also the circumstances. For example lets say you meet someone at a party; three things could happen. One, the beats could be completely different. Nothing happens, you forget about the person. Two, the beats are the same yet that evening they don't coincide. once again nothing happens. Three, the beats are the same and for a little bit match, you dicide the person is alright and want to hang out with them more. In the third instance how long the two beats continue beating together depends on the personality of the people. The people could get together later and find that they totally despise each other (beats no longer conicide) or they could become great friends to the end of days (the rythems of the people are very similar). Seeing how people change, their beats can also change, this is explined in human interaction; the cause of good friends suddenly having a falling apart, relationships being broken, etc.
This theory could get even more indepth with wave interferance patterns taking into account more than just two sources of beats (more than two people) and different amplititudes of rythem.
and now i am going to bed.
Goodnight.
7 April 2002 08:20pm UTC • 486 views • 1 comment
Tagged with relathionships, life, theory, waves
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First Mate Beca
22 August 2009 06:27pm UTC
you are so deep...who knew? do you think this was one of the many times we broke up? haha...these old posts are so funny!